Day 12: Book that is most like your life

Okay, so I am not doing such a good job at posting once a day. Believe me, I would save for the utter lack of sleep, mounds of neglected housework due to said utter lack of sleep, and two children who still need me a lot despite said utter lack of sleep and mounds of neglected housework.

Being a mother of two, I am quickly realizing that making promises regarding anything at this time in my life is rather useless and disappointing.

So...book that is most like my life.

Disappointment with God by Philip Yancey

There are Christians in the world who seem to have it all together and get through the craziness of life with serenity, patience, and long-suffering.

That would definitely not describe my faith walk.

Pits and valleys, interspersed with crazy-good mountain-top experiences. But the mountain tops always come after a whole lot of pain, disappointment, and doubt. I do not doubt my choice to have a personal relationship with God.

Like Job however, I DO doubt and question all the different aspects of that relationship. Especially when it sometimes seems as if God loves just being quiet and detached from said relationship. There is too much pain and suffering and despair in this world for me to NOT doubt and question.

There is also too much pain, suffering, and despair for me NOT to cling desperately to God regardless of my feelings in the moments of darkness.

I make no illusions that I am strong, steady, and firmly set on the rock of faith. More often than not I feel the weight of shifting sand as it pulls at my feet. I struggle against it and by God's grace alone, I prevail.

It does not make me any less doubtful when the quick sand continues to pull. I just know that God has his hand on the other end of my rope. And He refuses to let go of me.

Day 11: Book from your favorite author

A Grief Observed by C.S. Lewis

Lewis was married for a brief time to a divorcee named Joy Gresham. They spent four very happy years together, always overshadowed by Joy's terminal illness until she passed away in 1960. C.S. Lewis, so moved by the precious mortality of life, penned his doubts, fears, and overwhelming grief in a private collection of notebooks found around his home. Later on his step-son would ask him to publish those thoughts and ponderings.

Madeleine L'Engle wrote in her introduction to a newer edition: "I am grateful to Lewis for having the courage to yell, to doubt, to kick at God in angry violence. This is a part of a healthy grief which is not often encouraged. It is helpful indeed that C. S. Lewis, who has been such a successful apologist for Christianity, should have the courage to admit doubt about what he has so superbly proclaimed. It gives us permission to admit our own doubts, our own angers and anguishes, and to know that they are part of the soul's growth."

I have read so very many of his works and wish to read many more before I am finished. However, none of the works I've read by the Christian apologist and very intelligent man ever comes close to reminding me just how human C.S. Lewis really was. His work Mere Christianity alone was enough to intimidate me a bit. I loved it, but I wondered if Lewis EVER doubted anything about the Christian life. His words were so complex and yet so simple,  I thought surely he had never questioned his faith at all.

While I never would have wished him the grief he suffered in the death of his young wife, I definitely am glad that I could see the heart of this great man of faith and know that even he had his Job moments.

Day 10: Book that changed your life

Created to be His Help Meet by Debi Pearl

There are several books that have changed my life and one I even wanted to put here over Created. However, the other book has a different place in this list.

So I read this kind of against my will.

I hate the word "helpmeet" with a passion. Ask anyone who knew me growing up. The word "helpmeet" would conjure up horrifying images of a door mat, a meek and mild pushover of a wife with no say in anything related to her marriage and a timidity that would rival a mouse.

Yeah. So not me. Ask Jake, my amazing and surprisingly tolerant husband, and he will tell you that I am anything but timid or compliant.

If I don't have the last word in an argument I choose deadly silence instead. Anything to make sure he knows my displeasure. Respect is a virtue I struggle to attain when it comes to Jake. He deserves my respect; I just don't want to give it to him.

I read this and despised the woman who wrote it. I wanted to burn it a few times a long the way. Notice though. She uses the words "help meet" and not just the one word. Believe me. That makes ALL the difference for me.

See, Debi Pearl was (and is) by no means a pushover. She is married to a commanding often arrogant man who did not always deserve her respect and submission as a wife. She struggled for years to find answers like "How do I love a man who does not seem to care at all about MY needs" or "Why should I care about my husband's needs when he won't even take out the blasted trash?"

The other side of the coin? I LOVED this book. Debi takes the Scriptures and prayerfully (and lovingly) lays out the biblical model of a Christian wife. And that kind of wife is NO pushover.

What she is, is a strong, confident woman whose fulfillment comes from the Lord and whose unconditional love for her husband (with all his faults and failings) can lead her man to Christ without ONE word. By her example, she can show others just what it means to be the bride of Christ.

So powerful, so amazingly simple, and soul surgery inducing.

WARNING: Do NOT read if you have no desire to be a Christ-centered wife in a loving, beautiful, HEAVENLY marriage. :-)

Day 9: Book that makes you sick

The Inheritance Cycle

 

Okay. No offense to Christopher Paolini or Stephenie Meyers. I actually liked these books on first glance. But it was a toss-up as to which series made me more "sick" and I will explain before a million Eragon/Twilight fans start sending me death threats.

I excelled in spelling/grammar/anything to do with the English language in high school and college. Granted, it's been several years since I have actively taken part in a continuing education course on any of these subjects. As a writer/reader however, I must indeed reflect on the travesty that both of these book series have become in my point of view.

I feel bad for both authors because their editors botched it - badly. The grammar and structure of their stories are atrocious. While it may not (and did not) deter a first read through, I have read and re-read these books over and over again in order to pick out just what they did wrong.

That being said, I am focusing on the Inheritance Cycle because there is more at stake here than the poor grammar usage.

Has ANYONE else caught the not-so-subtle references to the Lord of the Rings?

Really?

I cannot be the only one.

Urgal?

Shade?

Ra'zac?

The whole relationship between Aragorn...I'm sorry...Eragon and Arwen...oops...Arya?

Granted there are subtle differences. I just cannot shake the feeling that I am reading a badly rewritten Lord of the Rings trilogy whenever I pick up the books.

I was home schooled. So I find it insulting that a home schooled boy would try to skive off a classic (and epic) tale to rework it into his own fantasy series. Now, I am certain he did not do it intentionally; he's a creative mind influenced by the works of others.

I just don't appreciate his work like I did the works of J.R.R. Tolkien. Tolkien was epic.

Paolini? I have a feeling he was/is a Larper.

Just a guess.

Day 8: Book that scares you

The DaVinci Code by Dan Brown

No other book has scared me quite so much and I am not talking in a "horror-close-close-my-eyes-at-each-scene" kind of a scared.

I am talking about a - Brown writes exceptionally well and he's bound to convince a good number of people that this story and the beliefs behind it are all true - kind of afraid.

I loved and hated this book more than any other book I've read so far in my life (well, we aren't counting the Bible...)

He weaves a tale of conspiracy and cult and murder and lies and subtle truth that scares me silly. I know it's a novel. I am intelligent enough to figure that out even without his disclaimer at the beginning of the book.

But there is just enough truth amidst all the "mythology" that could make for a very believable true story.

 

Of course, watching the movie, I completely realized just how absurd the whole thing was... ;-)

Day 7: Book that you can quote/recite

Pride and Prejudice

For what do we live, but to make sport for our neighbors, and laugh at them in our turn?

Good opinion once lost, is lost forever.

Stupid men are the only ones worth knowing after all.

Can it get ANY better than that? Pride and Prejudice helped me figure out life and relationships and all the intricacies of conflict between man and woman. ;-)

Day 6: Favorite young adult book

The Hunger Games Trilogy

So yeah. It's a series again; but in my defense, you cannot have one without the other two.

Dystopian society, government that is not as benevolent as they would like you to believe, gladiator style games to commemorate a "failed" rebellion so many years ago no one even remembers the truth, love triangle that doesn't completely overwhelm the story itself, and a kick-ass heroine who struggles with her forceful introduction to the position of revolutionary icon.

Yeah. This is a GREAT story.

I will also say - without giving away any of it, because I really want my readers to read the story for themselves - that I have never met a protagonist so unlikable and yet so incredibly appealing to me. Katniss Everdeen, on first glance, is hard, cold, and completely emotionally detached from the world around her. But read between the lines (she narrates the entire story) and you find a character who resonates with every wound you've ever borne in life. She truly is the epitome of sacrificial...okay, not counting Jesus of course. I am talking about the completely human version. She is self-deprecating and often annoyingly cynical/apathetic/morbid. Yet she still manages to draw you into what's really at stake and how incredibly strong she is as a woman, a warrior, and a heroine.

 

READ IT.

And that's all I have to say about that.

Day 5: Book you wish you could live in

 

The World of Harry Potter by JK Rowling

I wanted to be a good girl and say The Lord of the Rings or Chronicles of Narnia. Heck, I could have chosen any one of CS Lewis' worlds or George McDonald. It might even have been understandable for a conservative girl to choose the childlike world of L Frank Baum.

But who am I kidding. This was the first thought that popped into my mind and I am striving for honesty here.

No other fantasy world has ever grabbed my attention quite so strongly as the world of Harry Potter. I would have loved to be in Hermione's shoes or even the female version of Harry. I'd take Ginny Weasley if it came down to it. After all, she gets to kiss our remarkable hero and I have rooted for her from the beginning. :)

Such a magical, fantastical world can only be dreamed about and dream I did. Every step of Harry's journey was riveting and beautiful; I was drawn into the battle between good and evil from the beginning. This story will always be one I could revisit over and over and over again. Each time I do, I learn something completely new to draw me in a little more.

Day 4: Book that makes you cry

Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom


There are MANY books that have brought tears to my eyes and many more that reduce me to fits of weeping so that I cannot even read the words on the page.
This is one of the second group.
It's a thesis...an up close and personal analysis of the journey to life's final adventure - death. It the final class for Morrie and the first of a new set of life lessons for Mitch Albom as he listens to his college professor's last words of wisdom.
It's poignant, moving, and heart-wrenching. It's about love and life and all the things that get in the way of those greatest lessons we can ever learn.
Watch out, those of you who dare crack open the pages of this brief, but powerful read. You'll need a Kleenex box - or TWO - handy. :)